Jan 29 2026 | 00:24:20
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Privacy vs Withholding in Non-Monogamy, The Difference That Stops Fights
Jan 29 2026 • 00:24:20
In non-monogamous relationships, many conflicts are not about jealousy or trust, they are about information. What needs to be shared, what should rema...
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Polyamory Does NOT Excuse Poor Behavior
Jan 07 2026 • 00:24:38
Here's a radical idea: being polyamorous doesn't make you a better person. In this episode of Untamed Ember, Dr. Misty calls out the weaponized poly d...
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Power Exchange vs. Power Over: Ethical Dominance Without Coercion
Dec 24 2025 • 00:22:16
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for more deep dives. Power exchange is sexy when it’s chosen. Power over is toxic when it’s stolen. In this...
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Top Drop, Sub Drop, and the Neurochemistry of “After”
Dec 10 2025 • 00:22:54
If you like this episode, check out my mini-course on Drop at https://untamedember.com Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dive...
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Switching Roles, Staying Safe: Consent for Switches
Nov 26 2025 • 00:23:38
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for deep dives. Switches get a bad rap as “indecisive” — but the truth is, switching between roles is a ski...
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CNC Without Confusion: Ethics, Capacity, and Clear Off-Ramps
Nov 05 2025 • 00:23:33
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for deep dives. Consensual non-consent (CNC) is one of the edgiest and most misunderstood areas of kink. Do...
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Enthusiastic Consent When Words Are Hard
Oct 08 2025 • 00:32:45
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. “Enthusiastic consent” sounds great — but what if your body doesn’t do loud, verbal ...
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SSC, RACK, and PRICK/SSICK: Consent Frameworks for Nervous-System Safety
Sep 11 2025 • 00:32:44
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. Personal Responsibility in C...
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ADHD Meds & Sex: When Focus Comes at a Cost
Sep 03 2025 • 00:26:42
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. ADHD meds can be a lifesaver for focus, productivity, and stability — but no one tel...
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When Your Body Checks Out During Sex (Dissociation, Trauma, and Safety)
Aug 27 2025 • 00:17:47
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. You want to feel connected, but suddenly you’re gone — body present, mind floating n...