Nov 05 2025 | 00:23:33
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CNC Without Confusion: Ethics, Capacity, and Clear Off-Ramps
Nov 05 2025 • 00:23:33
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for deep dives. Consensual non-consent (CNC) is one of the edgiest and most misunderstood areas of kink. Do...
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Enthusiastic Consent When Words Are Hard
Oct 08 2025 • 00:32:45
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. “Enthusiastic consent” sounds great — but what if your body doesn’t do loud, verbal ...
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SSC, RACK, and PRICK/SSICK: Consent Frameworks for Nervous-System Safety
Sep 11 2025 • 00:32:44
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. Personal Responsibility in C...
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ADHD Meds & Sex: When Focus Comes at a Cost
Sep 03 2025 • 00:26:42
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. ADHD meds can be a lifesaver for focus, productivity, and stability — but no one tel...
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When Your Body Checks Out During Sex (Dissociation, Trauma, and Safety)
Aug 27 2025 • 00:17:47
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. You want to feel connected, but suddenly you’re gone — body present, mind floating n...
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Kink, Neurodivergence, & Safety: Why Structure Feels Sexy to Your Brain
Aug 20 2025 • 00:19:04
Ever wondered why detailed negotiation, safe words, and scene structure don’t kill the vibe in kink—they actually make it hotter? For neurodivergent a...
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The Sacred Art of Bailing: How to Quit Sh*t That Hurts Your Nervous System
Aug 08 2025 • 00:23:52
Ever sat in your car outside an event, heart racing, stomach in knots, every cell in your body screaming don’t go in, but guilt dragged you anyway? In...
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Touch Starved: When Our Bodies Don’t Want the Same Thing
Jul 31 2025 • 00:33:04
What happens when your body aches for more touch than your partner, friend, or family can give—or when you crave space while someone else longs to con...
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Time Warp: How ADHD Messes with Waiting, Talking, and Everything In Between
Jul 23 2025 • 00:29:13
Is waiting agony for you? Do you feel anxious when a conversation goes quiet, or does time vanish when you’re hyperfocused? In this episode of Untamed...
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Ghosts in the Bedroom: How Inherited Shame Lives in Your Fascia (Introducing SOFT)
Jul 16 2025 • 00:18:59
Subscribe to the Untamed Ember newsletter for free resources, weekly insights, and more SOFT practices: untamedember.kit.com. Are you haunted by old s...